Relationships
If you are dealing with a 'difficult' relationship, the first thing you need to know is that
you should be looking at yourself to see what it is within you that has magnetically attracted
this relationship. It is of absolutely no use whatsoever to get into a 'blaming' attitude.
And if you are in a recurring cycle – that is, you are having problems with a number of
relationships, it really is time to stop and start the analysis. It is beneficial to do this for
many reasons but the main three are :-. first - you can improve the relationship and get more
benefit from it, second – you are working through your own negative blocks and third – you will
attract better relationships in the future once you have the lessons this relationship is
teaching you.
It is our REACTION to people that will show us where there are lessons to
be learnt. Every time you get a bad feeling inside yourself, be that emotion fear, resentment,
anger or hurt, take a moment to see WHY you need to have that reaction. Where did it come from,
what is the conditioning that has allowed that automatic reaction, is this an ego reaction?
Words cannot hurt us, only our reactions can cause hurt and pain.
Family relationships can have a lot of karmic implications but even these can be changed. And
if at the end of the day, you decide to move on and leave someone behind, it is far better to
have worked on yourself first, then you will be able to let go and bless with love.
Many people, women in particular, suffer from issues of low self esteem. Unless these people
decide to work on themselves and regain their power, perhaps with the help of a therapist, they
will only keep attracting relationships that confirm their low self esteem.
So, let´s change ourselves and have a better life and better relationships!
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